Questions

Frequently askedquestions

Short answers to the questions that come up most often

Words in gold are links to more detail.

Getting started

How do I get started?

The Getting started walkthrough takes you through it in five steps: add your contacts (Family, Friends, Others), start a message, invite friends, and finish in Settings by naming your Assigned Contact. You can revisit and edit anything later — nothing is sent until you tell it to be.

What is an Assigned Contact?

Your Assigned Contact has one job: when the time comes, they answer an email confirming you've passed. There's nothing to keep, nothing to remember and nothing to do in the meantime. You name two — a first and a second — so it still happens if the first can't. They aren't your executor, they can't read your messages, and they don't choose anything: the words, the people and the days are already yours. It's kindest to ask them before you name them. What we'll ask of them

Messages

What is a message?

Anything you want someone to have from you: a letter, a photo, a video, a voice recording — or any mix of them. You choose who it's for and when it arrives.

What kinds of messages can I write?

Anything, in your own words. A note just to say hello, a thank-you, a condolence, a voice message on a hard morning — that's Thinking of You. If you'd like somewhere to start, Quote of the Day finds a quote for the person you're writing to. A Milestone message is for a moment in someone's life: a birthday, a wedding, a first child. And if you'd like a little help finding the words, there are guided ones — Words of Wisdom, Letter to a Child and What I Want You to Know.

What is the difference between "Send on future date" and "Send on specific date"?

Send on specific date messages go out while you're still here, on the date you pick. Send on future date messages are held for after you're gone. Once your Assigned Contact confirms your passing, all of them go out together. One meant for a day that hasn't come yet — a wedding, a first child — arrives marked for that day, to be opened on your wedding day. It reaches them, and it's theirs to keep; whether they wait is up to them.

I saved a message without a date — what happens?

If you chose Send on specific date but didn't set a date, the message is kept as a draft. It won't be delivered. Open it later, pick a date, and save again to schedule it.

Can I send the same message every year, like a birthday note?

Yes. Pick the date you want it to go out, then check Repeat every year on this date. The message will be delivered every year on that day until you delete it.

How do I delete a message I already saved?

Open the message from the Messages page. The Delete button is in the footer of the edit view. Deletion is permanent.

What do the message status badges mean?

Set for a date: it will be sent that day, and you can change it until then. Every a date: it goes out on that day each year. Sending soon: its day has come and it's on its way. Waiting: it's held for after you're gone. Draft — no date yet: it won't be sent until you give it a date. Delivered: it has reached the people it was for.

Family Tree

Can I add someone who has already passed away?

Yes. When adding a family member, choose Deceased under Status. Email becomes optional for deceased members, so you can still record them on the tree even without an address.

How do I add a niece, nephew, or cousin?

Pick the relationship from the dropdown, then choose which sibling (for niece/nephew) or aunt/uncle (for cousin) is their parent. They'll be linked through that branch of the tree.

What does "Mom’s side" vs "Dad’s side" do?

For grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, choosing a side tells TimeLink which branch of the tree they belong to so they're rendered above or beside the right parent. You don't need to pick a side for your own siblings or children — they're already on both sides.

Keepsakes

How do I add a photo, video or voicemail? (Apple & Android)

iPhone or iPad

  1. Tap + Add a keepsake.
  2. Choose Photo Library for a photo or video you already have, Take Photo or Video to use the camera, or Choose File for something saved in Files.
  3. Tap the one you want. It uploads straight away.
  4. Give it a title, choose who it’s about, and tap Save keepsake.

Android phone or tablet

  1. Tap + Add a keepsake.
  2. Choose Camera to take a new one, or your Photos, Gallery or Files for one you already have — the names vary a little from phone to phone.
  3. Tap the one you want. It uploads straight away.
  4. Give it a title, choose who it’s about, and tap Save keepsake.

Saving a voicemail

A voicemail has to be saved from your phone first. On an iPhone, open the Phone app, tap Voicemail, tap the message, then the share button, and choose Save to Files. On Android, open the message in your phone or voicemail app and look for Save, Download or Share in its menu. Then tap + Add a keepsake and pick it from your files.

On a computer, click + Add a keepsake and choose the file — a recipe you’ve scanned, a photo, a video or a recording.

Safety Net & delivery

How does my Safety Net work?

TimeLink checks in with you by email on the cadence you choose, and signing in counts as answering. Missing one does nothing on its own. After three in a row go unanswered, we email your first Assigned Contact, and they can tell us you're fine — which resets everything — or that you've passed. If they confirm it, we wait three days and email you in case it's a mistake: signing in stops it. After that, everything you've held for after you're gone is sent. If you haven't named anyone, it stays held.

What will my Assigned Contact actually have to do?

One thing, once. If TimeLink's check-ins go unanswered, your Assigned Contact gets an email asking whether you've passed away or are fine, and they answer it. That's the whole job — no files to keep, no dates to remember, and they never see what you wrote. If they can't face it, one click hands it to your second contact. It's kindest to ask them first, so the email isn't a surprise.

Can my Assigned Contact read what I’ve written?

No. Your Assigned Contact never sees what you have written. They see only who has something waiting and how many things.

Where do I manage my Safety Net?

Settings → Safety Net. From there you can add or change your Assigned Contact, see your last check-in, and adjust your cadence.

Privacy & your data

Is what I write used to train AI?

No. TimeLink does not use anything you write, record or upload to train AI models.

How long can someone open what I send them?

A delivered message stays open to the person it was sent to, through its private link, for as long as your account exists. The link does not expire. It stops working only if you delete that message or your account.

What can I send, and how big can it be?

A letter, a photo, a voice recording or a video — or any mix of them. Photos can be up to 25 MB, voice recordings up to 100 MB, and videos up to 1 GB.

Can I delete my account and everything in it?

Yes, at any time, from Settings → Your data. It goes for good — your messages, photos, recordings, your family tree and your Assigned Contacts — so download everything first if you'd like to keep a copy.

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